Tuesday, January 24, 2017

Valentine's Day Messaging



Look at you go!  You thought ahead, figured out which arrangement you wanted to send to your significant other, got all the information together for the delivery. . . you've called or stopped by your local Cactus Flower and placed your order. I mean, you're scooting along at a steady speed. . . and then we ask, "What would you like to say on the card message?"  Skreeeech!  

Oh, the looks we get from this one simple question:  dumbfoundment, fear, agony, anxiety, queasiness, deer-in-the-headlights, confusion.  While some of these expressions have made us laugh out loud, we feel it's only fair to help you out a little bit.  Here are some of the best tried and true card messages we've heard over the years:


SENDING A FEW DAYS AHEAD OF TIME:
"I love you so much, I couldn't wait for Valentine's day."
or
"Couldn't wait for another day to say I love you."


ROMANCE:
"You take my breath away, today and every day."


TOGETHER A LONG TIME:
"Cupid's aim is still pretty good."


ACROSS THE MILES/OUT OF TOWN
"Sending all my love your way."


SENDING ONE DOZEN ROSES:
"I usually tell you that I love you a couple times a day.  Today, I'll make it a dozen!"


SENDING THREE DOZEN ROSES OR EXTRA LARGE MIXED BOUQUET:
"If actions speak louder than words, this is my way of shouting."

SENDING AN UNUSUAL NUMBER OF ROSES:
"One rose for every year I've loved you."*
*Disclaimer: it is up to you to know how many years you've been together.  If you send 7 and you've been together 9, well...You'll have to explain either which two years you didn't love her, or how you weren't really paying attention to how long you've been together....


FUN:
"With you, it's Valentine's Day is
365 days a year!"

"8-3-1.  8 letters.  3 words. 1 meaning."  (If they can't figure this one out, it's 'I love you'.)

TO MAKE HER SWOON:
Just quote one or two romantic lines from 'your' song.  The longer you've been together, the better this works, because she'll be impressed that you actually remembered!


Roses, Roses Everywhere!

When you 'say it with flowers' you really do communicate what you mean when it comes to roses.  In Victorian times, every flower had special meaning.  Irises signified valor and wisdom, snapdragons were for graciousness, callas meant beauty, orchids signified refinement, and so on.  While most of the secret language of flowers has faded away into obscurity, various colors of roses still hold their meanings much as they did over 100 years ago.

RED                 love
LIGHT PINK    grace and joy
DARK PINK    appreciation
YELLOW         friendship
WHITE             loyalty
PEACH            respect
LAVENDER    enchantment
ORANGE         fascination and desire

Colors mixed together have meanings as well.  Red and white together signifies unity. White and yellow together means 'peace and harmony'.  Yellow and red together indicates a celebration.

The number of roses given also have significance
1        love at first sight
6        infatuation
9        together forever
11        bad luck (is supposed to signify he sent you 11 and gave the best one to another!)
12        be mine
13        friends forever
18        sincerity
24        I'm yours
36        madly in love
48        genuine love
60        love has no boundaries
 
√Źn an online poll, most women prefer red roses for Valentine's Day, followed by pink, lavender, white and yellow.  So whether you are a traditionalist and opt for the red, or you love the big, bright colorful varied mixes, or you create your own bouquet based on the significances listed above (such as, 24 red and orange roses mixed together would say, "I love you, I desire you and I'm yours".  What woman wouldn't be wowed by that?) CactusFlowers can help pull off a Valentine's Day that will make a hero out of you.